Fail

An embarrassing mistake or flop; epic fail is the big version.

What it means

As slang, a fail is a mistake or flop, usually an embarrassing or funny one. Cambridge Dictionary’s example is “My pancakes were an epic fail.” Dictionary.com lists fail as a slang noun for a humiliating mistake “given an exaggerated importance,” and as an exclamation: “Fail!”

Where it comes from

Green’s Dictionary of Slang defines the slang noun as “a failure, a disaster; often qualified as epic fail.” It lists two citations, both dated 2012: an entry in Connie Eble’s University of North Carolina collection titled Campus Slang 2011, and a news headline calling a restaurant chain’s Twitter campaign “an Epic Fail.”

Who says it now

The translator files fail under Millennials by its own convention; in 2012, when Green’s citations are dated, most Millennials were in their teens or twenties. In our observation it is still common, though “epic fail” now sounds a little like 2010s internet talk.

Tone

Jokey and a bit mocking. Calling your own burnt toast a fail is self-deprecating fun. Calling someone else’s effort a fail can hurt, especially if they cared about it.

What adults hear, what kids mean

To a parent, fail may sound like a failing grade, and hearing a kid say “that was a fail” can sound alarming. Usually the kid means a small, funny flop, like a dropped cake, not a real failure. If it is about a test, ask.

How to use it

Fail works as a noun (“that was a fail”), with adjectives (“total fail,” “epic fail”) and as a one-word verdict: “Fail.” Dictionary.com even lists an adjective use, “a totally fail policy.”

Two examples, written by us:

How to answer it

If someone calls their own mistake a fail, laugh with them or share one of yours. If they call your effort a fail, you can answer lightly (“Not my finest hour”) or, if it stung, say so.

Same idea, other generations

The Slang-o-matic wheel files Fail under Millennials for the idea of something bad or disappointing. These are the words it files under the same idea, by generation. They are related, not always exact translations:

Related slang

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Sources

Meanings and dates on this page come from these dictionaries. Each quote is copied word for word from the linked page.